In the latest episode of the ‘Owambe Thieves’ Show, Denrele Edun led a lively conversation with Tolani Shobajo (popularly called Tolani Baj), who plays Aisha in the comedy, and Tope Olowoniyan, who takes on the role of Hadiza. Together, they dissect the evolving perspectives on love, money, and marriage. Beyond the laughter and playful banter, the discussion tapped into a larger cultural shift in how relationships are viewed today.
For years, the ideal of love as the foundation of marriage was deeply ingrained in society. Older generations often upheld this belief, emphasising emotional connection over financial stability. But as Shobajo and Olowoniyan pointed out, the modern dating landscape presents a different reality—one where financial security is no longer an afterthought but a necessity. Shobajo made it clear that money is an important factor in her relationship decisions, while Olowoniyan acknowledged the growing transactional nature of marriage, even as she personally prioritises love.
This shift isn’t surprising. Economic pressures, changing gender roles, and the visibility of wealth on social media have all contributed to the growing belief that love alone isn’t enough. In Nigerian culture, where extravagant weddings and lavish lifestyles are often celebrated, the expectation of financial stability in marriage has become even more pronounced. Marriage is no longer just about companionship; for many, it’s also a partnership that demands financial security.
Interestingly, ‘Owambe Thieves’—the film at the centre of this conversation—also plays into themes of social class, ambition, and the dynamics of Nigerian celebrations. The discussion about money and marriage mirrors the film’s depiction of different characters at an owambe, from those scheming for their own gain to those navigating the unspoken rules of Nigerian party culture. Just as the movie showcases the ways people hustle at social events, the conversation revealed how relationships, too, have become negotiations of value.
Beyond the debate, the chemistry between Denrele Edun, Tolani Baj, and Tope Olowoniyan made the episode engaging. Their playful yet thought-provoking conversation reflected broader generational conversations happening both online and offline. Whether love should outweigh financial stability or vice versa remains a personal choice, but one thing is clear—money is now a key player in modern relationships.
Directed by Adeoluwa Owu and produced by Barbara Babarinsa and Eniola Ajao, the comedy stars Eniola Ajao and Zubby Michael. The film also features a performance from Juju music icon Sir Shina Peters and appearances from internet personality Abike Raheem (popularly known as Papaya Ex), reality star Tolani Baj, alongside Phyna Otabor and Mo Bimpe Adedimeji.
As ‘Owambe Thieves’ gears up for its release, it will be interesting to see how the film captures these cultural realities in its storytelling. The humour, chaos, and power dynamics of Nigerian parties might just be the perfect backdrop for an even deeper exploration of society’s shifting values.
